Karma – The Higher Self
- Aug 10, 2025
- 5 min read
Updated: Dec 5, 2025

Reducing the judgment of karma appears to be one of the headliners today, when the reality becomes clear and we start to question why we are here, all sensitive and awake persons arrive at some point in their lives when they stop and start to ask themselves questions, what am I doing here? what is my path? what am I here to learn? what am I supposed to be doing? What path do I need to follow?
It is clear, that the most significant lessons in life are learnt through relationships, whether they be personal relationships, friendships or business relationships. The learning of the attributes of loyalty, compassion, love, respect, listening skills, caring – to really care about the other, supporting, honesty, communication ....... etc. Our karmic path in life is affected by the learning of or non learning of these attributes of human emotion and behaviour.
Through each relationship we have during our lifetime will be affecting our karmic path, it is karmic. It is how we handle each one, how we interact and how we choose to behave within each relationship, whether personal or business, and how we carry ourselves and use our integrity will undoubtedly affect us as we travel through on our individual path.
I am as you know a great believer in prayer, it is such an integral part of who I am that it is impossible for me to go a day without praying. It is a special time between me and the Divine. It is also a time where I get to sit quietly and reflect on the steps and actions that I have taken during the day when interacting with every relationship, and to ask with sincerity and passion, to please make me aware if there is anyone that I have interacted with today that will come back as karma. As my devoted mission is to release myself from any future karma, and I know to do that then I must observe and look at every relationship that I have or come across with other people and carry out my thoughts, actions and deeds with integrity.
In my business life and on a few occasions I have been betrayed and dealt with in the most dishonest way. A very unkind and unwarranted way. It always hurts deeply when this happens to any of us, and it will, as we must learn to work with integrity but not to be a door mat, nor to give away freely all that one has worked so hard and over many years to create and to produce. A business transaction is still a business transaction, keep your business head but couple it with integrity. The same with personal intimate relationships, in fact all relationships. Stay clear, honest and focused throughout and try not to create anymore karmic debt than the debt you came in with.
Loyalty is a biggie, but not co dependancy...........
When we have an open heart it is so very easy to give give give, but there must come a time when we must all learn, first we give to ourselves. As I share in class, the three most important people in each of our lives, and the ones we must put first are, me myself and I.
Once we are there, then we can safely evaluate each action we take.Not in a selfish way, but in a way that is balanced and right.
People come to me asking why their path is so difficult, first and always I look at their colour numerology, the last number, the culmination of their 3 numbers taken from their date of birth, the 4th number gives me and them the clue and understanding as to why and also offers up the knowing of where they should place their energies going forwards.
To thine own self be true, and to know thy self, ancient texts and writings teach us these simple words to take onboard and to learn from. First we must know ourselves.There is a part in every course where I teach about coming home to one self as you are the one you are looking and searching for. Once we are home, then and only then can we stand strong and in our own power, and then begin to look at where and how we move forwards on the path we agreed to walk and agreed to learn the lessons we are learning when we came back to Mother Earth.
Karma is an individual and can be a lonely path until we find a clue to help us understand , we each came back to serve and the key is to find out where and how. I believe colour numerology can and will help answer these questions, by looking at the 4th number.
Look at both the positive and the negatives of the fourth number/colour. And therein lies many answers.
We all want everyone to like or to love us, in humans this has been proven to be one of the greatest forces. Our emotional body is incredibly strong and forceful, jealousy and revenge being the negative, can lead some to take actions they may not be proud of when they awaken and on looking back! Of course karma is absolute, their actions will lengthen their karmic debt pay back period. No one is immune.
I personally have a hard time with this existence, as Im sure many others too, It hurts my heart to know of so many suffering, starving and thirsty, peoples suffering never leaves my awareness. I try to give back where I can see with my own eyes there is a need and local to me, I look for people who are suffering and lacking and give, quietly and directly to the individual. No fan fare no praise sought, I may step into a queue and either pay their bill or contribute to their bill then swiftly leave the store. There are many ways we can help each other. I strongly believe in helping the individual, the family, the children, who one can see are clearly struggling.
Karma, such a force, one that is irrefutable and an integral part of mankind's journey. Many more are now becoming aware of the fact and learning that their lessons are not going away, we each came back and agreed to our individual paths and lives, agreed to work through our karmic lessons, and during our lives we can choose to either increase our karmic debt or to lessen it.
The choice is ours and only ours to make.
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